Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Gone for a minute

Hey everybody, I know I been gone for a while but things have been crazy with finals, graduations, and everything that comes along with that...

So I'm sitting in my family room eating a sausage egg mcmuffin meal [[yum]] and watching Maury...one of my guilty pleasures..the thing about Maury is::

WHY...*I repeat*...WHY would you embarass yourself, your family, and your children on national tv and air your dirty dirty DIRTY laundry?

The funny thing about Maury is that they insert random bleeps and stuff when the person who's being interviewed isn't even talking...Maury isn't talking either, so who's cursing...the voices of the people in the audience are not distinguishable enough to be bleeped out..smh

The girl on her right now is 17 years old and married...problem number one...sweetheart, there's no way in the world you're mature enough to be married..which explains why you're even on Maury in the first place confronting your husband and cousin about cheating on you..that's something that you handle in the privacy of your own home..or in the street [[I guess]] she just said we're married and I shouldn't have to bring you here for this. Miss...you shouldn't be bringing him on tv that's a mess..Furthermore, if he's not cheating on her then she looks dumb for bringing him on tv. However, more often than not if you think a guy is cheating on you, he probably is..there are certain warning signs you have to pay attention to. This fool was coming home with numbers written on his chest, hickeys and crap all over his neck, girl come on, you don't need to bring him on tv for that...So her husband cheated on her with her cousin and her cousin is proud of the fact that she had sex with her cousin's husband. What kind of woman are you that you sleep with your cousin's husband--shamelessly?! Ugh...I can't take it.

People, please don't get married if you're not ready to handle the sanctity and responsibility of marriage. There's a difference between being married and being with a girlfriend or boyfriend. Marriage is forever; boyfriend-girlfriend relationships come and go...I've seen so many marriages break up over the course of my 21 years (almost) that I respect it. Cheating is the ultimate offense, but if you really love the person, you should be able to--and willing to--work it out. Things happen and people get comfortable in their relationship, and they stop doing the little things they did to get their significant other and forget that they have to do things to KEEP them.
Spice up your intimacy, if you know your husband or wife is missing something sexually, you have to be in tune with them in every capacity to keep the intimacy in your relationship. Sex can be just sex but between a husband and wife, or a boyfriend and girlfriend (girlfriend and girlfriend or boyfriend and boyfriend--I love the gays :) ), it should be lovemaking not just sex. Don't worry about getting yours, focus on the bond that you two share and the love you have.

just some thoughts from a Hopeless* [[rhomantic]]
xo


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